Response.

Alrighty so this will be the blog that puts everything back on track. I can't help but involve myself in this situation going on because it involves me.

Em (9:45:29 PM): just forget it i mean it doesnt really involve you but it does lol

Di (9:45:47 PM): right...it's an on going issue that i had an idea of, but didnt know how serious it was until now

thats my outlook on this whole situation. This whole thing has been going on for 4 years and I never really knew the whole entirety of the situation...if I knew it was really separating them I would have done something to prevent the whole thing. It's hard to be on one side of the argument, but to have to be on both sides is something that requires even more discipline because you have to take information in without being biased and judging either party. Especially if you are the whole reason for this occurring it makes you feel responsible for whats going on. I feel embarassed and quite frankly if I had a decision I wouldn't take either to prom because of this whole ordeal. *sigh*

So yeah...En, don't be a complete jerk. I know how hard it is to still remain friends with Kitty for what she has done to you. However, you have to swallow your pride sometimes and just take life as it is. You'll find that you'll have many friends that'll do similar things to you and you'll just have to suck it up and move on. Don't throw yourself in a ditch if you dont have to. Forgive and forget...don't let envy or animosity get in the way. I'm not really sure how the whole forgiveness thing works...but you can't change who she is and she can't change who you are. You guys are like best friends and the last thing you need is to have someone come between you and how you feel about your best friend. But you know what, here is what I will reccomend...go on with the plan to hold a grudge against her and discover the outcome. Although I already know what the outcome is...I'll let you figure it out. If you do decide to hold a grudge against her...be prepared for a significant change not just from her, but from everyone that you both know and are connected by. Im already prepared for the worse.

Also on a side note...take Dionne's advice cautiously. She's only in it for herself, she's addicted to having an issue and being negative. If you noticed she only came around when there was something wrong with you...once nothing is wrong with you she will disappear. Friends aren't just there to provide an umbrella for the rain, they also stick around for the sunshine as well.

- DI